Summary of the conversation with parents. Parental love
Summary of a conversation with parents on the topic “Eternal values: about parental love.”
Description of the material: this summary of an educational conversation on the topic “Eternal Values: About Parental Love” reveals the relationship between parents and children and advice on raising children. The material will be useful for teachers in kindergartens for conducting conversations with parents, as well as for class teachers at school during class hours or meetings. Summary of a conversation with parents on the topic “Eternal values : about parental love” in kindergartens and schools. Goal: to help parents in their difficult work - raising children. At the core of any worthwhile human relationship is love. For example, love for the Motherland gives rise to patriotism, respect for one's ancestors, love for one's neighbors - compassion and kindness, decency, love for one's chosen one - chastity and devotion, love for children - sacrifice and responsibility. Parental love must be wise and patient. It is not enough just to give birth to a child and give him physiological life; you also need to be able to open for him the path to love, faith and conscience, to everything that constitutes the source of true happiness and spiritual character of a person. It is necessary to build parental love on understanding and respect for the child’s personality, the desire to see, understand and appreciate the world through his eyes. Only then can we find a common language and overcome the contradictions between two generations - adults and children. Becoming a wise friend and mentor to your child, trying to unobtrusively, gently guide the child’s thoughts in the right direction, without destroying his own initiative - these are the conditions for true parental love. In addition to understanding and respecting themselves as individuals, children should also see the personal example of their parents. They repeat everything that surrounds them in the family and if there is a model of love before their eyes, then they will subsequently build their feelings towards the people around them on the basis of kindness and love. If a child does not learn love from childhood in the family of his parents and does not get used to looking for happiness in mutual understanding, this can lead to searching for it in bad and evil desires. A special role here is given to the dearest person - the mother. She is the center of love in the family, an example and role model. But sometimes she doesn’t have enough time to properly care for her child, especially in today’s world. She has too many responsibilities: housekeeping, work, and if the husband is not like-minded in the general matter of education, then the child is actually deprived of a correct understanding of love and the cultivation of this high feeling. What seems trivial and unworthy of attention to adults is of great importance to children. For example, to the question, “What kind of people would you like your parents to be?” you can hear the answer - attentive or less frivolous. I’ll give you this example: “When a mother promises to pick up her daughter from kindergarten at three o’clock in the afternoon, she waits for her all the time at the window. But 3 hours pass, and mom doesn’t take her home and only comes at 5 o’clock, and not herself, but grandma. The girl is offended and considers the act frivolous. Trauma in a child’s soul can remain for many years, because children are vulnerable and very sensitive creatures on earth. This case just illustrates the need for a more careful and attentive attitude towards the child, respect for his personality from early childhood and responsibility towards him. It is possible that such episodes could mark the beginning of mistrust and a deep crack in the relationship between her and her daughter. Why be surprised if at the age of 16 she walks at night, upsetting and upsetting her mother? In parents, a child should see not a dictator, but a tenderly loving, caring friend, like-minded person and mentor in life. Children sense insincerity very keenly; you need to talk to them as equals. Many people try to achieve the desired result by shouting, but in response they receive a completely different attitude. You need to convey information to the child in a calm, even voice, explaining, not scolding. It is worth trying to understand the problem, understand, convince and forgive. Parents themselves need to learn love and teach it to their children. And they are destined to do this all their lives, day after day. The main thing is to gain wisdom, be sincere and sacrificial. Otherwise, blind and selfish parental feelings can bring terrible consequences not only for themselves, but also for society as a whole. And vice versa, what benefits and joys can wise parental love give to everyone around us, nurturing the best spiritual qualities in a person and revealing in him an amazing ability to love! Participate in the child's life, he needs it. There are too many temptations in life for a fragile consciousness and for those with not fully defined life values. To develop the right attitude towards these temptations, your support is needed. Based on the above, we can give some advice to parents: 1. As often as possible, show a keen interest in the affairs and feelings of your children, so that they constantly see support and care from you. 2. Tell them you love them very much. 3. Spend more time with them, when possible, read books, walk together in nature, play sports. 4. Assure that you can always understand and support them in difficult times. 5. Do not suppress creative activity with your authority, but rather help develop it. Make them feel like individuals. 6. Give up the practice of constant prohibitions. This makes you want to do the opposite. 7. And learn to listen and hear. By following these tips, I think you can achieve good results in raising children. They, in turn, will pass on the knowledge and skills acquired from their parents to their future offspring. We are all responsible for the future of our children and the entire human society.
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Consultations for parents of the senior group “Spring without vitamin deficiency”
Consultations for senior parents
"Spring without vitamin deficiency"
The sun's rays are warming the air just like spring. It would seem - live and be happy! However, it becomes harder and harder to tear your head off the pillow, and there is almost no strength left for anything. Is this a familiar picture? Meet His Majesty Avitaminosis. And, unfortunately, vitamin deficiency in the spring in children is no less common than in adults.
And under no circumstances should this matter be left to chance, without attaching special significance to the problem. After all, a child’s body is growing rapidly, which means it needs vitamins constantly. And the lack of vitamins, minerals and microelements has a very negative effect on the development of the child and on the functioning of all organs and systems of his body. And it is difficult to predict what complications vitamin deficiency may cause for a child.
Doctors advise
Parents should immediately sound the alarm if they discover problems in their child such as:
1. Increased fatigue of the child. Attentive parents will definitely notice that the child begins to get tired quickly and tries to lie down all the time. Older children may experience problems with school performance, absent-mindedness, and memory impairment.
2. Sleep disorders. Vitamin deficiency can make itself felt by sleep disturbances. Some children may experience increased sleepiness, while others may experience insomnia.
3. Problems with gums. Another very reliable sign of vitamin deficiency is often bleeding gums. Moreover, in severe cases, blood remains not only on the toothbrush, but even on soft food. In this case, parents should seek medical help as soon as possible.
4. Colds. If a child begins to get colds frequently, parents should also think about the possibility of vitamin deficiency. Unfortunately, very often parents attribute a child’s illness to a weakened immune system. And no one connects these two concepts - vitamin deficiency and weakened immunity - with each other. And in vain. By the way, it is the lack of vitamin C that leads to a decrease in the functioning of the immune system.
And remember that in spring the problem of vitamin deficiency is especially acute. Therefore, manifestations can develop extremely quickly. Take care of vitamin deficiency prevention in a timely manner. Moreover, you shouldn’t forget about the rest of the family either.
Vitamin and mineral complexes
Of course, there is a solution to this problem, and it is very close. Modern pharmacology offers a variety of different vitamin complexes. In principle, vitamin-mineral complexes became available to people relatively recently - about 50 years ago. This is exactly what opponents of pharmacological vitamin preparations operate on: “After all, people used to live without vitamins, and nothing! And such a word as vitamin deficiency was not a priori in the arsenal of doctors of those times.”
And indeed – the concept of “vitaminosis”
did not have. But there was such a terrible disease as scurvy. The obligatory companions of such a disease were severe loss of strength, lethargy, loss of teeth, various massive bleeding, and, as a sad result, the death of a person. But scurvy is nothing more than the last stage of vitamin deficiency.
Therefore, one should not reject the achievements of modern pharmacology. However, you shouldn’t go to the other extreme either - vitamins are not candy, and you should never eat them uncontrollably. An overdose of vitamins is no less dangerous for a child’s body than its deficiency. All vitamin and mineral complexes should be prescribed to a child by his attending physician - a pediatrician who is aware of the child’s health status and his individual characteristics.
Proper diet
However, vitamin-mineral complexes are not the only panacea. It is very important to properly balance your child’s diet. In spring it should be enriched with products that contain large quantities of vitamins and microelements.
Dairy products should make up at least 40% of the total diet. Moreover, all dairy products are relevant - milk, kefir, fermented baked milk, sour cream, yoghurts. Of course, you should give preference to products that do not contain artificial colors. Milk contains a large amount of calcium, which promotes the absorption of all other vitamins.
It is also necessary to ensure that the child’s diet contains a sufficient amount of animal protein. It is simply necessary for the full development of the child and the functioning of his body. But do not forget that all meat dishes for a child must undergo thorough heat treatment.
• All kinds of dried fruits
All dried fruits are very rich in vitamins such as A, B1, B2, B3, B5, B6. And there are also quite a lot of mineral elements - sodium, phosphorus, magnesium, calcium, and iron. Dried fruits are quite sweet, so almost all children, without exception, love them. It is unlikely that you will have a problem with how to get your child to eat dried fruits.
A child can eat dried fruits just like that, but it is much wiser to prepare a vitamin mixture for him. It is prepared as follows: take equal parts of prunes, raisins, figs and dried apricots. Pass them through a meat grinder, add the same equal parts of honey and lemon. Mix the mixture thoroughly and place in a glass container, which should be stored in the refrigerator.
If a child is prone to frequent colds, you can add either one part of aloe leaves or one ampoule of aloe extract to the resulting vitamin mixture. The mixture can be given to the child simply with spoons, or it can be spread on bread or cookies - the effect will be the same. A child should eat a vitamin mixture per day at the rate of one teaspoon for every ten kilograms of weight.
• Raw beets and seaweed
Seaweed and raw beets can be practically invaluable sources of iodine for a child. Of course, these products have a very unique taste, and getting a child to eat such a salad can be a difficult task. However, you can still try. And for adults, this option may be optimal.
• Celery root
Celery is generally an indispensable assistant for parents in the fight against vitamin deficiency. It contains huge amounts of potassium and iron. In addition, it has another pleasant feature - a pleasant taste. Despite the fact that children most often do not like any seasonings, dishes made from celery root are always in high demand among them.
Moreover, you can use absolutely anything - celery root, passed through a meat grinder, celery juice. You can add celery to the first and second courses of the children's menu in unlimited quantities. In this situation, there is no need to be afraid of an excess of vitamins - all excesses will leave the child’s body without any negative consequences.
• Rose hip
Rose hips are popularly called “treasury”
vitamins for a reason - it contains vitamins such as P, K, E, B2, and C. In addition, rose hips contain essential oils, citric and malic acids and carotene in large quantities. And, of course, rose hips contain a huge amount of essential vitamin C - 30 times more than lemon.
Of course, you won’t find fresh rose hips in spring, but you can buy dry rose hips in almost any pharmacy. You can brew rose hips as tea, or you can make decoctions from it - and your child will certainly receive all the vitamins he needs. If you are brewing rose hips as a simple tea, then simply grind it and place it in a teapot, like a regular tea leaves.
However, remember that you should not take multivitamin complexes and vitamin decoctions at the same time, without the consent and approval of your doctor. Otherwise, an overabundance of certain vitamins is possible.
Be healthy and enjoy spring!
